DEATH

The thing which is most uncertain and which most people fear for. Many people try to achieve and conquer many things but when it comes to death each and every one of them tries to avoid for as long as possible. Some never want to die even. People besides knowing that death is inevitable, their whole life try and run behind things which they can’t take to their afterlife bachelor party or things which are capable of defeating death. But despite knowing this, everyone rushes behind these mortal things which makes their life comfortable during their short journey in this world. These mortal things include success, fame, pride, money so on so forth. People fear death because they don’t know when it comes. But they don’t realise that death is a continuous process. In your life you die many times. You die a little when your favourite toy gets broken. You die a little when your crush falls in love with your best friend. You die a little when your best friend is being cheated and you cannot do anything about it. You die a lot when the girl you think is your life leaves you. You die a little when the cannot continue in the course/field you have chosen. You die a little when your father scolds you for no fault of yours. You die daily when you married a girl not by your choice but of your parents. You die a little when you cannot fulfil the wishes of your kids. Life prepares you for death. So, all your life there are many circumstances where death slowly eats you but you are naïve to understand. People who do understand do not accept.

But when you ask me what is death, I tell you that it is the greatest gift any human can get. Because it is the only thing that frees away all your miseries. Whatever they are, how much big they are, all wipes away with one single stroke. But people say it creates a void in the life of the people closest to you or your family. But as I see it, your family has certain responsibilities towards you and when you die their responsibilities are cleared and that makes their life a little easier. What I cannot understand is “Do people cry because an amazing person is dead or because they cannot live without that person?” Here too people are being a little selfish, aren’t they?

But it is very important to know that death should come for you and NOT vice versa. The very concept of suicide shouts the word COWARD. You didn’t have peace in this cruel world and when you commit suicide you won’t even have peace in the afterlife if there is any such world. Accept the fact that you have come a long way in your life and it is only a matter of time before things go back to normal. Hell man, who am I trying to motivate. Hard truth “THINGS DON’T COME BACK TO NORMAL, IF ANYTHING IT BECOMES MUCH WORSE”. You got no choice but to stand alone and fight and show this fu**ing world that you are courageous enough to LIVE in all those moments where you wanted to die.

So bottom line, stop fearing about death and running behind meaningless things. Try and gather moments and memories for as long as you live and find peace and happiness with whatever shit you got left.  

Dedicated to the people who conquered the thoughts of suicide and are living with a detached soul.

Oh my God...........Expectations

The biggest and the most dangerous problem I think the world is facing and will face in the foreseeable future is not Global warming or pollution or kim jong un, it is EXPECTATION.

As per oxford dictionary expectation means a strong belief that something will happen or be the case. It is okay to have expectation or beliefs about our future and our life but the real problem exists when someone else expects something from us. Most of the cases we don’t give a damn f**k about others expectations on us but when it origins from people that we share bond or blood, it becomes real pain the a**.

These people whom we share bond or blood have a certain right on us. They may be parents, friends, teachers, boyfriend or girlfriend. They are by law expected to have some expectations but by gods grace these expectations do have no limits. As soon as one expectation is achieved or reached the next one pops out. So virtually this cycle never ends and unfortunately most of the human beings fall in this vicious circle of reaching up to the expectations people have on them.

What we should do then?

Well actually there is nothing we can do. No one asked them to raise expectations on us and obviously we need not prove anything to them. As long as we know our capacities and capabilities and our goal we need not do anything but to constantly strive towards achieving our goal. And again this so called goal should not origin from expectations of others.

Hell, each and everything in this world, is somehow interlinked with expectations. Even the most powerful man in the world, the worlds richest, the worlds most influential each and everyone’s life is based on the foundations of these expectations. Our very system of democracy is based on this. People make presidents and bring them down based on the fulfilment of their expectations.

Why expectations are dangerous?

 Because it makes sure that we live our life not for our sake but for the sake of others. For the simple reason of making them happy, by reaching their expectations what am “I” getting? Am I really happy doing those things? Are their expectations reasonable? Can I reach them without compromising my ideals, my thoughts, my attitude, my life?

These are the questions each and everyone of us should ask ourselves first. Because those people who have expectations say that they are having expectations on us so that we can reach them and be happy and successful in life. Well what if we can’t reach them?

The biggest reason behind suicides rests in the very basic fact of not able to reach expectations.

So finally, to all the people in this world and all other parallel universes, STOP EXPECTING FROM OTHERS and to the ones that are dying to reach the expectations, it is important to tell your fricking little minds that OUR EXPECTATIONS ON US is the only thing that matters.

Rest everyone and everything could go to hell or any equivalent country in this world.